Hola! Hola!

I’m Wendy Barrios, LPCC, MFTC

I’m delighted you found me here.

I have built my entire practice around one conviction - that love is not something we lose. It is something we forget how to tend. And tending it is the most important work a human being can do.

The inner cultivation of loving oneself is a lifelong journey. As we grow older, the arc of being human in this world brings its own challenges and yet more resources for healing than any generation before us has had access to. Tending love for self is rooted in dignity, curiosity, and the radical act of befriending yourself. We so easily become our own harshest critic. This work is heart-led, compassionate, and fiercely committed to bringing that tenderness forward, into our relationships, our communities, and the world.

There is space for all of us here. Space to be seen, to be known, to be re-humanized. Space to remember that we are not separate from the earth, from each other, or from the love that moves through all living things. We are its stewards, and that begins within.

This is where the work starts. And it starts with you.

My Philosophy

“The most precious gift we can offer anyone is our attention. When mindfulness embraces those we love, they will bloom like flowers.”
-Thích Nhât Hanh

About Wendy Barrios, LPCC, MFTC

I hold an M.A. in Mindfulness-Based Transpersonal Psychology and a Post-Graduate Certificate in Marriage and Family Therapy. I am bilingual in English and Spanish. As a first-generation Latina woman with Maya descent navigating the layered identities that colonization carved, I've carried the particular ache of disconnection from my parents' homeland of Guatemala, from the language of the body, and from the kind of love that feels truly safe.

The heartbreak of my parents' divorce and the experience of navigating two worlds from a young age taught me to tune into emotional undercurrents long before I had language for them. I watched love collapse and wondered if it had to be that way. Over time I learned it didn't.

My own experience of conscious uncoupling with a previous partner became one of the most healing pivots of my life. What I discovered was that separation and heartbreak don't have to be done in bitterness and war, they can be done with love, with dignity, and with care for what was once sacred between two people. That experience cracked something open in me. It showed me that the patterns I witnessed in childhood didn't have to be my inheritance.

Through my own healing journey I have arrived at the most beautiful relationship of my life, one rooted in growth, respect, and deep friendship. But more than that, I arrived at myself first. My relational history began as a young woman who gave from empty, who loved without boundaries, who felt alone even in relationships, who didn't yet know her own worth. I am no longer that girl. I am a woman who knows what she carries, who feels complete on her own, and who understands that love and partnership are not a rescue, they are the most wonderful bonus to a life already full.

This is why I do this work. I have lived it and I know it’s possible.

Before becoming a therapist I worked in body-based practices, massage, yoga, and breath work, which taught me how much the body carries and how much it knows. Later, time spent learning from indigenous healers and plant medicine traditions deepened my understanding of ancestral healing, integration, and the sacred dimensions of transformation. These experiences continue to shape how I hold space: with presence, humility, and reverence for the stories and wisdom each person carries.

My work is especially alive with women and couples navigating love, trauma, and the profound shifts that come from life-changing experiences; including psychedelic journeys. I love dreamwork, meditation, ritual, tea ceremony, and the living wisdom of the Maya Cosmovision. I find restoration in long walks, yin yoga, connecting with friends, lying next to a river listening to water move over stone and spending nourishing time with my beloved, Wynn. I am a cat mama to a snuggly Jedi named Obi. And I am forever a student and seeker of the great mysteries of life.

Send me a message for a consultation call. I’d be happy to connect with you.

Warmly,

Wendy Barrios, LPCC, MFTC.

Focuses: Women's Issues · Couples & Relational Healing · Psychedelic Integration · Trauma & PTSD · Attachment Wounds · Life Transitions · Spiritual Emergence · Ancestral & Intergenerational Healing · Racial & Cultural Identity

Specialties: · Gestalt Therapy · Parts Work (IFS) · Somatic Therapy · Brainspotting · Embodied Imagination · Gottman Method · the Maya Cosmovision · Mindfulness-Based Approaches

Focuses and specialties:

Modalities

  • Gestalt is a present-moment, experiential approach that invites you to notice what's happening right now — in your body, your emotions, and your relationships. Rather than analyzing the past from a distance, we work with what's alive in the here-and-now, bringing awareness to the patterns, blocks, and unfinished stories that shape how you move through the world. It's creative, embodied, and deeply relational.

  • Your body holds more than you may realize, the imprints of old wounds, the tension of unspoken emotions, the memory of experiences that words alone can't reach. Somatic therapy works with breath, movement, sensation, and awareness to help you listen to what the body has been carrying, and create new pathways toward regulation, safety, and aliveness.

  • We are not one single self; we are many. Parts work invites you to meet the different voices, protectors, and wounded parts that live within you with curiosity and compassion rather than judgment. At the center of it all is your Self — wise, steady, and capable of healing. Together we create the conditions for your parts to be heard, unburdened, and brought back into harmony.

  • Developed by Robert Bosnak, Embodied Imagination works with dreams, imagery, and the body to access the deeper wisdom of the unconscious. Rather than interpreting symbols from the outside, we enter them, feeling their texture, temperature, and aliveness from within. It's a doorway into the parts of yourself that live below language, where some of the most profound healing quietly waits.

  • The Maya worldview understands all of life as sacred, cyclical, and deeply interconnected; the body, the cosmos, the ancestors, and the natural world are woven together as one living web. Rooted in my own Guatemalan heritage and years of apprenticeship with Maya knowledge keepers at Lake Atitlán, I bring this cosmovision into my work as a living thread not a concept, but a way of seeing. For clients drawn to ancestral healing, earth-based wisdom, and the sacred dimensions of their own becoming, this is medicine.

  • Developed from decades of research on what makes love last, the Gottman Method gives couples concrete tools to break negative cycles, repair ruptures, and build a relationship that is emotionally secure and deeply connected. We work on the quality of your friendship, the way you navigate conflict, and the small daily moments that either erode or strengthen trust. It's practical, evidence-based, and profoundly hopeful.

  • EFT is rooted in attachment theory — the understanding that we are wired for connection, and that our deepest wounds and longings live in the bonds we form with others. In couples and individual work, EFT helps us identify the negative cycles that keep us stuck, understand the attachment needs underneath them, and create new moments of genuine connection and emotional safety. It's some of the most powerful relational healing work available.

Education +
Credentials

Licenses: Licensed Massage Therapist (LMT) · #0025702
Licensed Professional Counselor Candidate (LPCC) · #0022215
Marriage & Family Therapist Candidate (MFTC) #0014960

Education:
M.A. Mindfulness-Based Transpersonal Psychology · Naropa University
Post-Graduate Certificate in Marriage & Family Therapy · Denver Family Institute
B.A. Pre-Physical Therapy · Cal State University Dominguez Hills
Massage Therapy · National Holistic Institute

Trainings +
Certifications

Trainings & Certifications:
Sensorimotor Psychotherapy Level 1 · Pat Ogden,
Psychedelic Integration · Playskool Coaching with Shiri Godasi
Integrative Somatic Parts Work · Fran Booth
Trauma-Informed Plant Medicine · Atira Tan
Nervous System Regulation · Jessica Maguire
Conscious Breathwork · Claudia Nanino
200hr Certified Yoga Teacher · SoHo Yoga Natasha Snow Needles

Teachers +
Lineages

Teachers & Lineages
Tz'utujil Maya · Nana Berta Navichoc — huesera, bodywork
Kaqchikel Maya · Tata Izias & Nana Izabel — Maya Cosmovision & Cacao
Shipibo Konibo · Mahua Lopez Lineage — Ayahuasca & Master plant dietas

“A life truly lived constantly burns away veils of illusions, burns away what is no longer relevant, gradually reveals our essence, until, at last, we are strong enough to stand in our naked truth”

- Marion Woodman